Your wedding is your wedding.
If you want to have 17 bridesmaids and 3 geese who arrive on ice skates you should.
Ok, I am not sure how you would get the geese to put the ice skates on, but that is up to you.
People who know you and love you will understand your inherent craziness and enjoy the event all the more for it being a reflection of yourself.
My fiance is buying me a beautiful engagement ring (as is traditional) and I am buying him a beautiful engagement guitar. He doesn’t like jewellery.
Some people might find this weird. Don’t care.
This is way we are doing things.